I am a very strong willed personality. Once I’ve made up my mind on something it’s VERY hard to prove/persuade me otherwise. That said, the Lord was very clever in the way He brought Chris and I together for eternity.
Chris and I attended the same high school, hung out in the same circle of friends, and both had a secret interest in the other. Our 1st date was the summer after he graduated. We went to a comedy club. But just friends we remained. We’d talk on the phone and date once in a while, but he knew I wanted to serve a mission and claims he “backed off” because of that. When the time came for me to turn 21 I sent in my papers, received my call, and entered the MTC. I entered the mission field in early September. A few weeks went by just fine and then I met with my mission president for a regular “greenie” interview. During our discussion he told me that he felt I was needed elsewhere and when I arrived at our apartment that evening to pray about this. Of course I did, but I didn’t receive the answer I expected. I felt an undeniable need to go home. My mom was sick when I left, so I called my parents thinking something had happened. Everything was fine. This just confused me more. I KNEW I needed to go home, and I wasn’t just homesick. I called my mission president and my companion and I went to the mission home for 2 days. During this time I talked to my Bishop and parents--both were supportive, but neither understood. The evening before I was to fly home my mission president called me into his office. His eyes were damp and he told me how sad he was to be losing me as a missionary, but that he also KNEW that the Lord wanted me home, but didn’t know why.
It wasn’t but a few weeks later that Chris called my mom for my address & she casually asked if he’d like to talk to me because I was right there. I took the phone and Chris told me he’d be right over to talk about it. He arrived thinking that I was horribly sick and was sent home for medical reasons, but after a long and spiritual conversation he understood. He left and called soon after to ask me on a date. By December we knew we were getting married. The BIG DAY came on July 30th a year to the day I went into the MTC.
I will never doubt that Chris and I were meant to be together. The Lord just had to intervene when I set my mind to serving a mission. He sent me out, helped me to serve, but brought me home when the timing was right.
I always smile when people use the phrase “such a coincidence" because I think that everything is as it should be.
3 comments:
Adam always says, "It's not that we always do what the Lord wants, it's usually that we do what the Lord knows we are going to do, and he uses us were we end up." You and Chris rock.
I hadn't heard your story before and I love it!
beautiful story, wait until I tell you mine!
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